VIDEO – Where is the Clitoris? This video guide shows you where the clit is. The clit is just above the vaginal hole. The clit is quite small but does swell up with blood when a woman is sexually turned on but it is still quite small. Because the clit is so sensitive it has its own protection in the form of the clit hood which covers the clit in day to day life. Sliding back the hood you can see the clit which looks like a little red jelly bean, even purple in some cases. You must touch the clit in a subtle fashion if at all given her 8,000 nerve endings make it an incredibly powerful in the quest for female orgasm. Watch the video and I show you exactly where the clit is.